When we dream about what we want to see in our life we always touch personal life, career, and money. Having a nice family is important in order to be happy as well as having a good paying and rewarding job. The thing is that without one of these things we tend to experience much less joy and satisfaction as we always think of the missing element. Having a wonderful wife with a bunch of kids is great and it certainly makes your life happier, but what if you don't have a job where you can realize your talents and potential and as a result can't provide for the family's needs. This is no fun. Or when you have an awesome career but don't have a family to share your joy with it is no fun either. Well, we can't help you with personal life issues, but we certainly could give some good advice for your professional career.
Getting a Job You Deserve
When we are talking about a job search all of us think of something they would enjoy doing. For example, if you love teaching kids you will unlikely pursue a career in sales or marketing. And there are basically two criteria by which we choose where we want to work: salary and passion. When a company offers a job you will enjoy doing and appropriately compensate for it, that's where we want to work. However, it is not easy to get to that point in your life when you have this kind of offer. So how does one come to the point where you actually get such kind of job.
The first thing you have to do in order to get the job of your dreams is to make sure you actually deserve it. It is not fair to have a recent graduate take the position of a director in large corporations. He/she did nothing to deserve it: no accomplishments, no required experience, no needed qualifications. Very often job seekers look like that student who wants the position of a manager in a big company - they don't have necessary qualifications, but because they think they are good people and employees a company should hire them. That's a huge mistake. In order to get the job that you want you to have to become a professional by investing your time and efforts into working and training. After you have become a professional you are to make sure you have a decent presentation of who you are in your resume.
If you are not experienced in writing resumes and/or cover letters you might want to ask for help. There are plenty of resume writing services that could assist you in developing an effective resume. While doing that don't forget about networking - it will help you access right companies with nice career opportunities. The more you invest in networking, the more chances you will have to end up in the desired position. It obviously takes time and hard work, but it is worth it. A successful career is pretty much impossible without things like training, professional development, effective resume, and networking.